Coffee – then adulting.

Or wine. Wine then adulting.

Just a mom to a know-it-all teen and an 8-year-old who rules the roost. A wife, a daughter, and a twin sister. Millennial who juggles a full-time job with mental sanity.

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  • Adulting is…never having enough wine for a snow WEEK.

    I write this as I sit here with a glass of Zinfandel, knowing full well that I have to be up at 5 a.m. for my daughter’s first volleyball tournament of the season. We got a notice today stating that parking at the tournament isn’t guaranteed due to the snow. Also, the building is colder…

  • Adulting Is…A Giant List of Tabs Open in Your Head that Never Closes

    It’s only January, and I feel overwhelmed. We just made it through the holidays, and it already feels like winter is all about living for summer. There are vacations to figure out, summer camps to book, pool memberships to buy, and pounds to lose. Meanwhile, there are bills to pay. Dinners to make. What was…

  • Post-Holiday Reflections: My 2026 Goals

    Adulting is…making resolutions that I might actually accomplish. It’s been a while since I’ve written. The holidays have consumed my brain. Somehow, now I feel like I finally have some breathing room to think outside of Christmas. In some ways, it felt like a Covid holiday. Everyone was sick (not us, save for my teenager’s…

  • The Dreaded Holiday List: Navigating Gift Giving

    Adulting is…asking for boring – I mean practical – holiday gifts. It’s that time of year again: LIST MAKING. From Christmas lists to New Year’s goals. I’d love to know, what’s everyone putting on their Christmas list (besides an f-ing break)? As a kid, I would never quite understand why my parents and older relatives…

  • Feeling Fall-ish

    I miss the Fall. Like the real Fall. Jumping in the leaves. Just admiring the leaves. Pumpkin picking. Baking apple cake. Haunted hayrides. I haven’t watched one horror movie all month. I guess it’s not too late. But September and October are filled with the hustle of birthday parties, sports, back to school obligations, etc.,…

  • Seeking Answers on Sunday

    I went to church this past Sunday for the first time in a few months. I hate to use summer as an excuse, but we get out of our normal routines, travel, etc., and unfortunately, that means forgoing Mass. I did chaperone my daughter’s church camp…does that count? Anyways, I have honestly been eager to…

  • Back to Germs

    What a week it’s been. I’ve been at the pharmacy more than my kids have been in school. Between retrieving prescriptions, buying Covid tests, and various other medicines for allergies and cold symptoms, you could say the local Walgreen’s knows me well. Unfortunately, my daughter contracted Covid right when she turned 13. Not the best…

  • Embracing the End of Summer: A Realistic Approach

    It’s that time of year again that I dread while also welcome. While it’s sad to see summer go, it’s also comforting to get back to routines. I look back on summer and think of the fun things we did as a family. I also regret some things we didn’t get to do. Every year…

  • The death of the ‘playroom.’

    I should have been prepared for it. But I didn’t realize how the cleaning and reorganizing of the playroom would hit so hard. I wanted to move my office there. Unfortunately, the size of my desk made it impossible. But I still took the opportunity to clean up foam gun darts and pick off dried…